Cross Filter with visuals

In the image the section on the left is from table TaskOccurrences and the other visual are from table Team Workload. The problem I am trying to solve is looking at the image when you select a bar from the visuals on the left it filters the rest of the visuals but vise visa it wouldn't work see image below

for context of the build below is the relationship of the dashboard also the dax of the for right visuals count 

when I try to make the team workload to Mi number relationship to cross filter both direction i get this error

the dax for right visual count below  

I can't figure it out, if it possible I wouldn't mind a solution.